Last Monday, I set up a trial hair and make up with the make up artist that we decided to go with.  I also scheduled the pre-nup pictorials with Kate on that day so that the look would not be wasted but would be captured. 🙂  He showed me 2 hairstyles, one that was an up-do and another that was like a half ponytail.  I liked both of them and we decided that the up-do would be for the ceremony and the half pony would be for the reception since my veil would be off during that time.